Taking Care of Yourself as a Caregiver

Why Taking Care of Yourself Matters

When you pour all of your time, energy, and heart into another person, believe it or not, your own health can silently suffer. You may find yourself skipping meals, losing sleep, pushing aside your appointments, and postponing your own needs. Over time, this can lead to exhaustion, stress, and physical or mental illness.

Some people may think that taking care of themselves can be considered selfish. But, by making space for your own care, you’re not being selfish, you’re actually strengthening your ability to help others. Think of it like the oxygen-mask rule on a plane: you must put your mask on first before putting it on others.

Below are several ways to take care of yourself while you care for someone else:

1. Prioritize Your Physical Health

• Eat balanced meals and stay hydrated.
• Get enough sleep and establish a bedtime routine if you can.
• Move your body! even short walks, light stretching or exercise make a difference.
• Keep up with your own medical appointments and health screenings.

2. Manage Stress and Emotions

• Recognize when you’re feeling overwhelmed. Some common signs of feeling overwhelmed are: irritability, fatigue, and frustration.
• Incorporate relaxation practices like deep breathing, meditation, yoga, or simply stepping outside for a few minutes.
• Acknowledge your emotions. Feeling guilt, sadness, frustration or grief is all natural! give yourself permission to feel those feelings.

3. Build and Use Support Systems

• Reach out to friends, family, or fellow caregivers. Simply talking can be a relief.
• Attend a support group (in-person or online) where people understand what you experience.
• Accept help when offered. Even small tasks like errands, meal prep, or sitting with the person you care for for a bit can provide a much-needed break.

4. Set Boundaries and Give Yourself Permission

• Define what you can and cannot do. As much as we think it, caregiving doesn’t mean you have to do everything alone.
• Say “no” or “not now” when you need it. Prioritizing yourself isn’t being selfish. It’s giving yourself a break.
• Carve out personal time, even 15 minutes a day can be meaningful. Whether that time is for watching tv, reading a book or doing an activity you enjoy.

5. Take Taking a Break Seriously

• Regularly schedule breaks. Whether it’s a few hours, one day, or a short vacation away, make sure to take those breaks.
• Explore respite care options or ask a family member/friend to take over for a session. A well-rested caregiver is more effective and present.

Benefits of Taking Care of Yourself

There are many benefits when it comes to taking care of yourself. Doing so provides physical, emotional, and social benefits.

Physical Benefits
Taking care of yourself reduces fatigue and exhaustion, boosts immune system and decrease the risk of illnesses.

Emotional Benefits
Taking care of yourself reduces stress and anxiety, improves mood and prevents burnout.

Social Benefits
Taking time to keep a social life going helps prevent isolation and makes you feel less alone during this already stressful time period.

Bottom line, when you care for yourself, you care better for others. You are not alone in this journey. Taking care of yourself is one of the best gifts you can give both yourself and the person you care for.

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